Sudden changes since Friday Home › Forums › Melanoma Diagnosis: Stage IV › Sudden changes since Friday This topic is empty. Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total) Author Posts March 18, 2013 at 6:03 pm #21116 meeshka6059Participant Suddenly Dad is too weak to get out of bed. He can barely talk now. He is off of all treatment. Hospice is on board and full time aids. We are so sad but there is a lot of love surrounding us. We wish we knew how long. No one knows. We wish he could tell us what he is thinking. He either can’t. Or won’t. This is so hard. Sending love and light to all. ~Michelle March 18, 2013 at 11:45 pm #59699 dkmcParticipant Michelle-Hospice “time” has got to be he most bittersweet time I have ever experienced. It was a privilege to have that time with my Dad. Try & let yourself just “be in the moment” as best you can. Much love, Karen March 19, 2013 at 12:30 am #59700 meeshka6059Participant thank you kindly karen. i really appreciate your reply. bittersweet is the perfect word for all of this. i am so grateful and sad to be a part of it. with love and warmth, michelle Author Posts Viewing 3 posts - 1 through 3 (of 3 total) The forum ‘Melanoma Diagnosis: Stage IV’ is closed to new topics and replies.