I just wanted to share( I won’t repost my entire story. It is a few posts down if anyone would like to reread it)….. After all that is going on- I did go see dr coit. I’m glad you recommended him Catherine. He is an amazing man. He was very positive and encouraging. He was actually encouraging no surgery- but my husband and I still felt that it was the best coarse for us- and dr coit was ok with that too. I just wanted to update and say thanks for the encouragement.